Thank You or I Am Grateful

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I created an article about this a long time ago at the Shantarm Ashram.
For some reason, it interests people.

There are even some arguments about it. And, of course, I am not urging you to act any differently after this latest article of mine.

What matters here is not the word itself, but what stands behind it.

Still, I will discuss this a little in the Mahapurna School as well.

Everyone understands “thank you.” You are asking for God to save someone—for God to save you.

Just as I was surprised by the arguments at the Ashram about what was wrong with this, I am surprised now as well.

Oh well.

Many people have switched to saying not “spasibog,” but “blagodaryu.”

That is, “I give you my благo” (“goodness”).

But the other person might ask: “Okay, you are giving me your goodness—well, go on then, rather than just talking idly...”

But the person had no intention of giving away any of their own goodness.

So they turn out to be a deceiver. They have broken a commandment... “Do not lie.”

So I don’t know—it seems like we are just trading one thing for another here :)

If you are not going to give your goodness away to anyone, perhaps you should not say it out loud?

Think for yourselves.

How did people get around this, for example, in ancient civilizations? In the Vedic one, for instance?

There certainly was neither “thank you” nor “I am grateful” there.

In India, for example, people do not say it that way.

What do they say?

For example, someone gives someone else a bracelet. The recipient might say, “I really like it, it’s so beautiful, I’ve wanted a bracelet like this for a long time; now I’ll wear it on holidays...” In other words, they will explain how important this thing is to them. That is better than the formal word “thank you.”
Or a young man gives a girl his seat, and she responds with a smile and says something like, “Oh, how polite and cultured you are, young man,” or “Oh, after what you did for me, I feel much better!”

Do you understand?

These are just examples. It is not necessarily the case that everyone in India behaves this way. Most people do.

No one needs your meaningless “thank you.” Everyone is interested in knowing that they were useful to you and exactly how. This creates good karma. Ten people will tell you in a day that you are polite and cultured, that you helped, supported, or saved them... Not simply: thank you, thank you, thank you......

In Vedic society, people also used the word SHUKRA, SHUKR, or SHUKRIYA.

And they did not respond to it with “you’re welcome,” but with SVAHA. Yes, just as during a Puja. It means something like “So be it.”

Someone says “Shukriya”—“I am grateful to you.” And the response is “Svaha”—“So be it; may the Gods see this and appreciate it.”

Shukra is the ruler of Friday. Friday is Venus, the ruler of good fortune, bohemianism, leisure, and so on.
Shukra is the son of Brahma. He divided into two divine Beings, becoming the Teacher of the Devas (Suras) and the Demons (Asuras). Shukra is the only Being to receive from Shiva the ability to revive the dead. That is, even if someone has died, they can be brought back to life with the help of Shukra. There is even such a mantra—the Sanjivani Vidya.
Some people know this mantra and use it. We all know some stories like that...
So, the beginning of all this was connected with Shukra.

About Shukra at the Mahapurna School: Search results for the query: shukra

In Vedic society, people do not say “thank you” to relatives and friends at all—it can cast doubt on the closeness of the relationship.
 
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By the way, only now did I notice that I wrote this article on Friday :)
It wasn't intentional.
 

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Whenever I said “thank you,” I always felt very uncomfortable. Only after reading this article did I realize that, for the most part, I said “thank you” only to check my own feelings. And I couldn't understand what was wrong with this action of mine (saying thank you); I hadn't said thank you to my relatives at all for a long time. I remember saying thank you to my parents when I was about 14, but only because they forced me to thank them for buying things for me -))) Otherwise, I preferred to talk specifically about how much I needed and benefited from things. Exactly as it says in this article.

I also always felt that these meaningless words, including verbal holiday greetings, were simply a way to draw attention to oneself rather than to congratulate someone.

That's it, now I definitely won't thank anyone anymore.
 

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Once, at Sadhana Ashram, I was even reproached for not saying thank you or expressing gratitude. It was literally an energetic blow. It took me a long time to recover from it afterward.
Although I had read the article-practice about these words long ago.
But I do want to say thank you for this, because I had to go through such a School of life, and situations like these made and continue to make me stronger and teach me.
Since childhood, it was clear to me, and I always said: “I praise, I say thank you, I express gratitude rarely, and only when it is truly appropriate.” I was literally born with this Knowledge (I came into this incarnation with it), one might say.
This OМ Shanti post-practice came at exactly the right time. ⚡🌧🌦🌈🌞

I would also like to add that I like staying out of extremes, and this topic is no exception.
 
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I have a question: what about the practice of noticing the good throughout the day and being grateful for everything you have? If you don't express it or acknowledge that it is valuable to you, the Higher Powers may not help either, since there is no feedback. Or should you express it through your realizations? For example, where I live now, it is customary to say thank you to everyone—for instance, to the driver when you get off the bus (for taking you where you needed to go, driving well, and so on). At first, this seemed bizarre to me, but it actually fits into the practice of being grateful for everything you have—not only taking, but also giving, like a like and Virt-Money.
 

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I have a question: what about the practice of noticing the good throughout the day and being grateful for everything you have? If you do not express it or acknowledge that it is valuable to you, the Higher Powers may not help either, since there is no feedback. Or should you express it through your awareness? For example, where I currently live, people are accustomed to saying thank you to everyone—for instance, to the driver when getting off the bus (for taking you to your destination, driving well, etc.). At first, this seemed strange to me, but it fits perfectly with the practice of being grateful for everything you have: not only taking, but also giving, like a like and Virt-Money.
That is why the tipping system exists.
To a rickshaw driver with ten children and a sick wife, “thank you” sounds like an insult.

The person who buys something has already given something.

And the Higher Powers do not need your thanks either. They need your growth and development.

But again, as I said right at the beginning, people are different. Someone may expect a “thank you” from you because that is all they understand. Give them that thank-you.

But if you tell the driver, “You are simply a driver sent by God! You drove me as if I were an expensive crystal vase...” he will feel better.
Of course, it is difficult to say something like that. It is easier just to throw out a quick “thank you.”
 

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That is why the tipping system exists.
To a rickshaw driver with ten children and a sick wife, “thank you” sounds like an insult.

The person who buys something has already given something.

And the Higher Powers do not need your thanks either. They need your growth and development.

But again, as I said right at the beginning, people are different. Someone may expect a “thank you” from you because that is all they understand. Give them that thank-you.

But if you tell the driver, “You are simply a driver sent by God! You drove me as if I were an expensive crystal vase...” he will feel better.
Of course, it is difficult to say something like that. It is easier just to throw out a quick “thank you.”
Your answer helped me understand the difference. It really is more difficult to express your awareness in detail. I will try to respond that way; it is very interesting.
 

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To me, the expression “I thank you” carries no material substance whatsoever—it is a wish for blessings, an expression of gratitude, simply a heartfelt message without any ulterior motive. And nothing diminishes through such a message; it only adds to society as a whole.
 

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Namaste! Lately, I have also been thinking about this question. What is the difference? If you say, “May God save you”... well, that is wonderful. And “I bless you” is also appropriate, depending on the situation))). But when speaking with someone, I would always hesitate, unsure what to say. Now I will know which expression is more appropriate at the given moment)))
 

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I have the opposite situation. I used to say thank you/I am grateful several times for the same thing, but recently I came across an article that said (as Om Shanti also pointed out above) that instead of these words, it is better to acknowledge the benefit the person gave you.
I am still in the process of becoming aware of this, and out of habit I forget and simply thank them again, but not as often as before. I am trying to continue the phrase, “Thank you for...”
 

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In the description of this meditation: Robert Monroe. Audio
there is the word "gratitude".

For example: I express my gratitude to you for...

This is how noblemen used to speak, by the way. Cultured people.
 
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