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Tomorrow we begin an intensive course at the Mahapurna School to relieve tension.
The intensive course will last 21 days. However, you can start whenever you like and work at your own pace.
Still, doing it together is always easier.
Participant's daily report
Day 1. Mapping Inner Tension
Theme of the day
I notice tension that I did not notice before.
Today you do not need to force yourself to relax. You do not need to fight your state, drive away your thoughts, or convince yourself that everything is fine.
The first step is to see the tension as it is.
Many people become so accustomed to living in a tense state that they stop noticing it. A clenched jaw, raised shoulders, heaviness in the chest, a tense abdomen, racing thoughts, and constant inner readiness to solve something begin to seem normal.
Stress can indeed manifest through muscle tension, headaches, changes in breathing and heartbeat, digestive problems, irritability, fatigue, and difficulty concentrating.
Today we will not immediately try to remove all these manifestations. First, we will learn to notice them.
Task for the first day
By the end of the session, you should:
Prepare:
Part One. My Baseline
Write down the date and time.
Then rate your state on a ten-point scale.
0 means a complete absence of tension.
10 means the strongest tension you can imagine.
Write down:
Overall inner tension: ___ out of 10.
Physical tension: ___ out of 10.
Emotional tension: ___ out of 10.
Speed and restlessness of thoughts: ___ out of 10.
Fatigue: ___ out of 10.
Sleep quality last night: ___ out of 10.
For the last item, 0 means very poor sleep, while 10 means complete and restorative sleep.
Now complete several sentences:
Lately, what causes me the most tension is…
I find it especially difficult to relax when…
I notice that my tension increases around…
When I am tense, I usually start to…
In 21 days, I would like to feel…
Do not try to write beautifully or correctly. This is not an essay or a report. Write the first thing that comes to mind.
Part Two. Mapping Tension in the Body
Sit comfortably. Place your feet on the floor or adopt another stable position.
Close your eyes if you feel comfortable. If closing your eyes makes you anxious, leave them open and look at a calm, stationary object.
Take three normal breaths in and out.
Do not try to breathe especially deeply. Today we are only observing.
Slowly direct your attention to different parts of your body:
What do I feel here?
How strong is this sensation?
If it had a shape, color, or density, what would it be?
Tension may feel like:
Mark the areas you found on the body image.
You can use different colors:
Part Three. The “I Notice and Do Not Fight” Practice
Choose one area of the body where the tension is especially noticeable.
Direct your attention there.
You do not need to say to yourself:
“I am tense all over.”
Say it more precisely:
“I notice tension in my shoulders.”
Or:
“Right now I feel heaviness in my chest.”
Or:
“I notice constriction in my abdomen.”
There is a big difference between these phrases.
You are not the tension.
Tension is a state that is currently present inside you.
Place your palm on the tense area if that feels comfortable. If touch is unpleasant, simply keep your attention near that place.
Take several calm breaths in and out.
As you exhale, silently say:
“I do not need to remove this right now.”
Then:
“I can observe this sensation and remain present with myself.”
Stay this way for two or three minutes.
Do not check every second to see whether the tension has disappeared. When a person tries too hard to relax, relaxation becomes yet another task.
At the end, ask yourself:
Did the sensation remain the same, intensify, lessen, or change its form?
Any answer is acceptable.
Even if nothing changed, you did the practice correctly. Today's goal is not a miracle, but an introduction.
Part Four. Where My Tension Comes FromDivide the page into three columns.
In the first, write:
What happened?
In the second:
What did I think or do?
In the third:
How did my body react?
Example:
What happened: I received a work message.
What I thought: I need to reply immediately, otherwise the person will be displeased.
How my body reacted: my shoulders and jaw tightened, and my breathing became shallow.
Write down at least three situations from the past few days.
These may include:
Observation Practice Throughout the Day
Three times today, pause for about one minute.
Each time, ask yourself:
Where is my tension right now?
What happened in the few minutes before it appeared?
What am I trying to control right now?
Can I lower my shoulders slightly, unclench my jaw, or relax my palms?
You do not need to relax your entire body. It is enough to reduce the tension by at least five percent.
Sometimes the door to calm does not open wide, but only a tiny crack. Yet even through it, light begins to enter.
Video Practice on YouTube
After creating the body map, you can do a short body-scan meditation.
Search on YouTube: “10-minute body scan meditation in Russian”
You can also choose an option without musical accompaniment:
Search on YouTube: “Body scan for beginners without music”
Choose a video lasting approximately 7 to 15 minutes, with a pleasant voice and a calm pace.
You do not need to endure a voice or music that irritates you. Meditation should not sound like another boss who urgently requires you to relax.
Image for the First Day
For the first day, you will need a simple image:
A light-colored silhouette of the human body, front and back, on a neutral background. The silhouette contains no pre-marked areas, labels, chakras, or organs. The person marks the areas of their tension on the image themselves.
You can make two versions:
Affirmation of the Day
I honestly notice my state. I do not need to fight myself. Awareness is already becoming the beginning of liberation.
Repeat it slowly three times.
You do not need to force yourself to believe every word. It is enough to let this thought remain beside you for a while.
Evening Closing
Before bed, rate your overall tension again:
My evening tension: ___ out of 10.
Answer the questions:
What new thing did I notice in my body today?
In which situation did the tension intensify the most?
Was I able to reduce it even slightly?
What helped me the most?
At the end, write:
Today I realized that my tension…
Complete the sentence in your own words.
Result of the First Day
After the first day, a person is not yet expected to become calm.
The result sounds different:
“Now I better understand where my tension lives, when it appears, and how it manifests in my body.”
This is the beginning of the journey.
It is impossible to consciously let go of something whose existence we do not even notice.
Important Note
If observing your body causes a sharp increase in anxiety, a feeling of unreality, distressing memories, or panic, open your eyes, look around, feel your feet, and name several objects you can see.
You can stop the practice and return to your usual activities.
The program is intended for self-help and for learning tension-reduction skills. It does not replace medical care or work with a psychologist in severe or prolonged conditions.
This first day will also provide baseline material for Day 21: the person will fill out the same body map again and compare which areas have become calmer and which still need work. Mindful observation and grounding practices are consistent with the World Health Organization's approach: stress-management skills are learned gradually and may take only a few minutes of daily practice.
The intensive course will last 21 days. However, you can start whenever you like and work at your own pace.
Still, doing it together is always easier.
Participant's daily report
- Tension: X out of 10.
- Quality of practice, your rating: %%
- Main observation of the day:
Today I noticed that… My insight... Today I learned...
1. 7 out of 10.
2. 90%
3. I had an insight: I finally saw where my tension lives in my body; as I relaxed that area, the overall tension began to let go.
Day 1. Mapping Inner Tension
Theme of the day
I notice tension that I did not notice before.
Today you do not need to force yourself to relax. You do not need to fight your state, drive away your thoughts, or convince yourself that everything is fine.
The first step is to see the tension as it is.
Many people become so accustomed to living in a tense state that they stop noticing it. A clenched jaw, raised shoulders, heaviness in the chest, a tense abdomen, racing thoughts, and constant inner readiness to solve something begin to seem normal.
Stress can indeed manifest through muscle tension, headaches, changes in breathing and heartbeat, digestive problems, irritability, fatigue, and difficulty concentrating.
Today we will not immediately try to remove all these manifestations. First, we will learn to notice them.
Task for the first day
By the end of the session, you should:
- determine your overall level of tension;
- understand which parts of your body it accumulates in;
- notice the main external and internal causes of tension;
- feel the difference between yourself and your state;
- create a baseline against which the program's results will be compared.
Prepare:
- a notebook or a separate program journal;
- a pen or pencil;
- several colored pencils, if available;
- an image of a human silhouette from the front and back;
- about 25–30 minutes of free time.
Part One. My Baseline
Write down the date and time.
Then rate your state on a ten-point scale.
0 means a complete absence of tension.
10 means the strongest tension you can imagine.
Write down:
Overall inner tension: ___ out of 10.
Physical tension: ___ out of 10.
Emotional tension: ___ out of 10.
Speed and restlessness of thoughts: ___ out of 10.
Fatigue: ___ out of 10.
Sleep quality last night: ___ out of 10.
For the last item, 0 means very poor sleep, while 10 means complete and restorative sleep.
Now complete several sentences:
Lately, what causes me the most tension is…
I find it especially difficult to relax when…
I notice that my tension increases around…
When I am tense, I usually start to…
In 21 days, I would like to feel…
Do not try to write beautifully or correctly. This is not an essay or a report. Write the first thing that comes to mind.
Part Two. Mapping Tension in the Body
Sit comfortably. Place your feet on the floor or adopt another stable position.
Close your eyes if you feel comfortable. If closing your eyes makes you anxious, leave them open and look at a calm, stationary object.
Take three normal breaths in and out.
Do not try to breathe especially deeply. Today we are only observing.
Slowly direct your attention to different parts of your body:
- forehead;
- area around the eyes;
- jaw;
- tongue;
- throat;
- neck;
- shoulders;
- arms and palms;
- rib cage;
- heart area;
- abdomen;
- lower back;
- pelvis;
- legs;
- feet.
What do I feel here?
How strong is this sensation?
If it had a shape, color, or density, what would it be?
Tension may feel like:
- pressure;
- constriction;
- heaviness;
- a lump;
- burning;
- cold;
- tingling;
- vibration;
- inner noise;
- emptiness;
- numbness;
- the urge to keep moving.
Mark the areas you found on the body image.
You can use different colors:
- red — strong tension;
- orange — moderate;
- yellow — mild;
- blue — cold, emptiness, or reduced sensitivity.
Part Three. The “I Notice and Do Not Fight” Practice
Choose one area of the body where the tension is especially noticeable.
Direct your attention there.
You do not need to say to yourself:
“I am tense all over.”
Say it more precisely:
“I notice tension in my shoulders.”
Or:
“Right now I feel heaviness in my chest.”
Or:
“I notice constriction in my abdomen.”
There is a big difference between these phrases.
You are not the tension.
Tension is a state that is currently present inside you.
Place your palm on the tense area if that feels comfortable. If touch is unpleasant, simply keep your attention near that place.
Take several calm breaths in and out.
As you exhale, silently say:
“I do not need to remove this right now.”
Then:
“I can observe this sensation and remain present with myself.”
Stay this way for two or three minutes.
Do not check every second to see whether the tension has disappeared. When a person tries too hard to relax, relaxation becomes yet another task.
At the end, ask yourself:
Did the sensation remain the same, intensify, lessen, or change its form?
Any answer is acceptable.
Even if nothing changed, you did the practice correctly. Today's goal is not a miracle, but an introduction.
Part Four. Where My Tension Comes FromDivide the page into three columns.
In the first, write:
What happened?
In the second:
What did I think or do?
In the third:
How did my body react?
Example:
What happened: I received a work message.
What I thought: I need to reply immediately, otherwise the person will be displeased.
How my body reacted: my shoulders and jaw tightened, and my breathing became shallow.
Write down at least three situations from the past few days.
These may include:
- work tasks;
- phone calls;
- waiting for a reply;
- news;
- financial matters;
- family relationships;
- having to hurry somewhere;
- fear of making a mistake;
- the habit of controlling everything;
- being unable to say no;
- thoughts about the future;
- memories of the past.
Observation Practice Throughout the Day
Three times today, pause for about one minute.
Each time, ask yourself:
Where is my tension right now?
What happened in the few minutes before it appeared?
What am I trying to control right now?
Can I lower my shoulders slightly, unclench my jaw, or relax my palms?
You do not need to relax your entire body. It is enough to reduce the tension by at least five percent.
Sometimes the door to calm does not open wide, but only a tiny crack. Yet even through it, light begins to enter.
Video Practice on YouTube
After creating the body map, you can do a short body-scan meditation.
Search on YouTube: “10-minute body scan meditation in Russian”
You can also choose an option without musical accompaniment:
Search on YouTube: “Body scan for beginners without music”
Choose a video lasting approximately 7 to 15 minutes, with a pleasant voice and a calm pace.
You do not need to endure a voice or music that irritates you. Meditation should not sound like another boss who urgently requires you to relax.
Image for the First Day
For the first day, you will need a simple image:
A light-colored silhouette of the human body, front and back, on a neutral background. The silhouette contains no pre-marked areas, labels, chakras, or organs. The person marks the areas of their tension on the image themselves.
You can make two versions:
- A blank silhouette for filling in yourself.
- A more artistic image of a person with areas of red, orange, and dark light visible inside, symbolizing accumulated tension.
Affirmation of the Day
I honestly notice my state. I do not need to fight myself. Awareness is already becoming the beginning of liberation.
Repeat it slowly three times.
You do not need to force yourself to believe every word. It is enough to let this thought remain beside you for a while.
Evening Closing
Before bed, rate your overall tension again:
My evening tension: ___ out of 10.
Answer the questions:
What new thing did I notice in my body today?
In which situation did the tension intensify the most?
Was I able to reduce it even slightly?
What helped me the most?
At the end, write:
Today I realized that my tension…
Complete the sentence in your own words.
Result of the First Day
After the first day, a person is not yet expected to become calm.
The result sounds different:
“Now I better understand where my tension lives, when it appears, and how it manifests in my body.”
This is the beginning of the journey.
It is impossible to consciously let go of something whose existence we do not even notice.
Important Note
If observing your body causes a sharp increase in anxiety, a feeling of unreality, distressing memories, or panic, open your eyes, look around, feel your feet, and name several objects you can see.
You can stop the practice and return to your usual activities.
The program is intended for self-help and for learning tension-reduction skills. It does not replace medical care or work with a psychologist in severe or prolonged conditions.
This first day will also provide baseline material for Day 21: the person will fill out the same body map again and compare which areas have become calmer and which still need work. Mindful observation and grounding practices are consistent with the World Health Organization's approach: stress-management skills are learned gradually and may take only a few minutes of daily practice.